But because the image illustrated the nearly universal frustration with trying to understand female sexuality. But psychological components exercise much greater restraint on women. One labeled "Men" contained just a single on-off switch. Freud described this desire as the Pleasure Principle, and the process of suppressing this desire as the Reality Principle. The other, labeled "Women", contained over 30 different dials and indicator lights.

Hypnosis and the Female Libido When I was back in school, a classmate distributed a graphic called "Women as explained by Engineers". Throughout history, men have searched the world over for the best, most powerful aphrodisiac, that special potion or seduction technique that could make a woman eager for sex. We grow up, discover the necessities of living, and realize that there is more to life than pleasure. Because the key to increasing a woman's sexual desires isn't in some herb or drug, it is in her mind; in the way she thinks about sex and pleasure. The image sho two control panels. We're all born with a natural desire for pleasure. Male and female sexuality are both built on a combination of biological and psychological components.

But most people have been looking in the wrong places.

We laughed not because women are really more complex than men.